Sleeping, mouth agape, no shoes on bed.
It takes about two minutes for him to get aroused enough to engage in conversation. I sternly suggest a walk. "If you don't walk you won't get strong enough to get back home." "Oh, OK." "Let me find out the best way to take you for a walk."
I find the nurse who then asks the Physical Therapist if Bernie is able to walk. After a brief discussion we decide a wheel chair ride is the best.
We go "Fred Flintstone" style -- feet used as propulsion. A bit of gentle steering gets us to the back garden.
Bernie asks the time.
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I point to his watch, and he stares and says, "A little after four?" "Look again Bernie." 15 seconds of staring and he says "Oh, nearly 11:30?" "Yeah, good."
We sit in the quit and hear the birds. Bernie does not sustain a conversation and does not begin one.
It does feel good to absorb some filtered sun. A little after noon the nurse finds us and asks if Father would like his lunch outside or in his room. "I think in my room." Bernie says. He needs a push back and I leave him in his chair as he begins his lunch.
What a surprise to find this site! Thank you for this. I have refrained, in part, from visiting him any more for a while because when I call, he keeps saying "please, later when I feel better", and no doubt other readers may be unsure how "welcome" visits, scheduled or otherwise, are to his state of nerves. And friends' advice on the matter ranges from "yes" to "no". It sounds Like more visits are in order, Fr. Bernie!- sorry for the delay!
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